Friday, December 26, 2008

How to become beautiful one

Women have been attracted to beauty for as long as they were created. They seek and sort ways to make themselves more beautiful. From using flower to decorate their hair to using another person hair to give themselves hair extension. From using natural ingredient to enhance and nourish their skin, to undergo extreme plastic surgery. But what is beauty? We can see beauty everywhere. We know what is beautiful. We look at beautiful people. But what is the definition of beauty. One says "Beauty is the quality that give pleasure to the sense". So beauty is some thing when you see you feel please, nice, good. But is it so? Sometimes when I look at the beautiful people in the magazine, I rather feel jealous or feel bad about myself. Why can't I be more beautiful. Why my skin is not that smooth, bright and glow like the girl I see on TV. I feel down. Why my nose is not in perfect shape like her? And why I cannot keep my weight off so that I can be more slim like her. Is beauty justify?

Different period of time and era, we find ourselves define qualities of beautiful women differently. Long time ago, Chinese women should be quite chubby and white skin with tiny feet to call herself beauty. Indian women has to be curvy, should have long dark hair and creamy Honey tanned skin to say she is beautiful. Now! the Global network era many seem to have one same opinion about how beautiful women should look like. Skinny Thin! Perfect make-up! Glamorous dress! She should put on high heels and have silky smooth stylish hair. Light glowing smooth skin. Big perky boobs! Long legs!

How many people can be like that? How many women can posses such many quality like that? The truth is that all women are not like that. Real women have curve, fuzzy hair, different skin types and tones. So doesn't they beautiful? I will tell you....

One of the most powering and inspiring quote I ever heard in my life is from my friend when I was in 11th standard. She is the beautiful girl. She possesses many of the qualities of the beautiful women said previously. She told me " Every girl/woman is beautiful if she know to decorate herself".

Beauty is essential to every women. That is why we are drawn to make up and beauty tricks and tips to make us look better.... more beautiful. Here I am want to share my experience about the road to be the beautiful one. It is not just about being beautiful. But to feel good about yourselves, and let yourselves to just be, to express who you are, to empower and to be stronger.

See in T.V. the beauty isn't cheap! Well, that's how we believe the commercial of luxury. Expensive spa, costly cosmetics, exercise instructors/trainers, designer clothes & accessories, etc. But the truth is you have everything you need at home or things that you are already own. You just have to know how to use, select, adapt them to suit you.

Later I'm posting the tips & tricks. Also my personal journal of weight loss and beautiful skin.

Ponie